In my humble opinion, the absolute best howives all share th..
🕑 Added 2022-10-11 17:12:56 +0000 UTC
In my humble opinion, the absolute best howives all share the fundamental mindset that a bull is not just the wife's lover. Rather, he's built in to the entire fabric of the marriage.
So when I'm having a casual conversation with my husband, I'll often refer to my alpha lover as "our bull" or "our alpha."
This serves two fundamental purposes, the first of which is to give Scott the warm, fuzzy feeling of actually being included. And this subtle manipulation is especially effective with the husbands that are still maybe on the fence a little when it comes to the entire arrangement.
But the second purpose is one that I truly almost get off on. And that's using my words to set Scott's psychological outlook for our get togethers. And this simple little trick is absolutely perfect for crystallizing the reality that I'm not the only submissive one in our marriage when it come to "our" alpha.
And this is the kind of "prearranged" mindset that affords me certain opportunities - like getting to sleep in our alpha's bed at night without any irritating whining or argument from Scott🤫
