Many longtime followers know that I’m always on the lookout ..
🕑 Added 2022-04-13 00:04:25 +0000 UTC
Many longtime followers know that I’m always on the lookout for science that backs up my own personal worldviews. And I’ve actually become quite good at finding it.
It turns out that a significant percentage of women possess an “infidelity gene” that men do not, and this particular gene drives us to spread our legs outside of our primary, committed relationships.
Here are some excerpts from articles that I found myself perusing this weekend that might offer some insight as to the possible reasons your wife is sneaking off at lunch to let the sexy college intern from the marketing department fill her tight little cunt with his seed. Odds are, that if it’s not because of her genetic predisposition for novelty between her legs, then you, quite frankly, probably just have a very small penis (which is an entirely different line of research lol).
But if it’s any comfort, let me assure you that the likelihood of her leaving you for the intern is only a slight fraction of a percentage point higher than zero – At least for peri0ds of time longer than 30-120 minutes each 😉
My advice – either give her the freedom to go full-on doggy mode with the interns at work or keep a very watchful eye on the panties cleverly tucked at the very bottom of her laundry hamper. Either way, be certain to have a paternity test for each and every chiId that you’ve supposedly fathered – and maybe especially so if you find yourself in the small penis camp. While loathe to openly admit it, most women disdain the idea of raising small-penised offspring.
Happy reading 😊
The New York Times reported on a study by the University of Queensland in Australia to determine whether some people are just more inclined toward infidelity. It looked at the vasopressin receptor gene—a hormone that affects trust, empathy, and sexual bonding in animals—to see if it may be responsible for a person’s desire to stray from the comforts of a monogamous relationship, or “extra pair bonding,” as sociologists call it.
The study—of 7,400 Finnish twins and their siblings who had all been in a relationship for at least one year—found a “significant association” between five different variants of the vasopressin gene and infidelity in the women. The Times noted that 9.8% of the men and 6.4% of the women reported two or more sexual partners in the previous year, and 40% of the “variation in promiscuous behavior in women could be attributed to genes.”
Interestingly, the research noted, that while there may be no clear evolutionary advantage to female infidelity, intercourse between the sexes has never exclusively been about procreation. Cheating can be intensely pleasurable because, among other things, it involves novelty and a degree of sensation seeking, behaviors that activate the brain’s reward circuit. Sex, money and drugs, among other things, trigger the release of dopamine from this circuit, which conveys not just a sense of pleasure but tells your brain this is an important experience worth remembering and repeating. And, of course, humans vary widely in their taste for novelty.
Meanwhile, numbers from the National Opinion Research Center’s 2016 General Social Survey show that although the percentage of men who admitted to infidelity has held steady over the past two decades, the percentage of wives who reported having affairs rose almost 40 percent — a trend that’s holding steady in 2018, says Tom Smith, director of the survey.
The fact is that good old-fashioned lust appeals to plenty of women, too. In her new book, Untrue: Why Nearly Everything We Believe About Women, Lust, and Infidelity Is Wrong and How the New Science Can Set Us Free, author Wednesday Martin, PhD, points to research that says some women are genetically predisposed to “extra pair bonding.” Men — however they might argue otherwise — don’t have this gene. “Many experts now believe that women struggle as least as much as men and probably even more with monogamy,” Martin says, “and that they actually require variety and novelty of sexual experience more than men do.”
And as women have more agency regarding who they pair up with, they’re more willing and motivated to make a move when something’s not working. “The gender gap in adultery is closing and it’s not just about opportunity and possibility,” says Helen Fisher, Ph.D., author of Anatomy of Love: A Natural History of Mating, Marriage, and Why We Stray. “But it is about choice. Women now are more inclined to demand to have all their needs met.” Fewer women are marrying out of need, Fisher says; instead, they’re marrying to please themselves. But that also means when they’re dissatisfied with something, they can feel justified to go elsewhere.
That’s not to say they want to go so far as divorce — and, in fact, even as adultery is on the rise, divorce rates are falling. “Cheating can be a bit like using a bazooka for an ant problem, a reaction to existing issues,” says psychiatrist Laura Dabney. “But for many women who say they’re in ‘happy’ marriages, which is a lot of the women I see, there is an ‘I want it all’ part of it.”
Martin puts a more overtly feminist, or at least sex-positive spin on it: “Why would you get divorced just because you want to have sex with someone else? What is that equation? It makes no sense to lots of women, just like it makes no sense to lots of men.”
So, I’m interested to hear your take on these fascinating little findings. Is being ass-up for a stable of sexy y0ung bulls just the way things are meant to be for the pretty little modern wife?
