unfortunately there’s a HUGE stereotype that all OF models a..
🕑 Added 2024-12-25 21:47:49 +0000 UTC
unfortunately there’s a HUGE stereotype that all OF models are cheaters. i understand how lack of knowledge could cause a person to think this way, but in reality that’s not always the case. although i’ve met some wonderful creators in committed relationships, i can’t really speak on behalf of anyone but myself. in my experience, i’ve always viewed sex and love as completely different things (the difference of making love and fucking). i’ve always been very sexually open and curious, and you’d be surprised how much you can learn about a person through their kinks. now my general needs are not to say i’m down to fuck any and everyone, because due to a mixture of trauma and simple personal preferences, i’ve become extremely picky with who i have sex with (i rarely even add new sex partners anymore). i’ve always stayed true to my motto “if i wouldn’t do it off camera, im not doing it on camera”, as my goal in content creation is to just use it as a sexual outlet to record experiences i’d already be having, and show those off! i also love displaying the visual difference in having sexual experiences with someone you romantically love, and someone who’s a platonic friend (you can actually see the chemistry, comfortability, and trust difference if had right).now because of my sexual boundaries, i’ve missed a lot of experiences to push my career in the industry, since most creators seek full blown sex content and that’s one of the only things i’m not willing to do. and this is where my romantic partner comes in; we started off as best friends and he learned to understand my wants and needs very well, and vice versa. after a while our connection started forming a lot deeper, and the romance factor was added. we have both had many in depth conversations about our romantic and sexual preferences, and spoke a lot about what our relationship would look like LONG TERM (many couples only think of the here and now, and that’s truly why so many people end up cheating years into the relationship, bc they formed their relationship based on the societal norm and not based on what THEIR needs are). on top of my line of work, again i am very sexually explorative, so i expressed to him how i couldn’t see myself ever sexually committing to a person, since i’m a very sexually curious person and the way i love is completely different from the way i fuck. he expressed as long as we stay completely open with each other about our sex lives and follow boundaries, this dynamic in a relationship works perfectly for US. but because of stereotypes like these, even if my partner isn’t effected by experiences i have, i still feel a need to go out of my way to be extremely open with him about anyone i engage in sexual practises with, along with a full rundown of how i met them and who they are to me. again EVEN if he states he trusts me enough to ensure im respecting him and the relationship we’re building, i get super anxious about him overthinking and feeling unloved, so i constantly stay completely open and reassure him as he does for me. although we are wanting to having sexual relations with others throughout time, we are both very clear in NOT wanting to share romantically, and any experiences had with others must be had following that rule. fyi i also have specific kinks of wanting to watch my partner have sexual experiences with other women, which he’s stated he doesn’t actually need but would LOVE that experience if i’m comfortable, so again he truly works with both my kinks and lifestyle so well. now you may read all of this and think how the fuck a person would want any of this, and again, it comes down to our own personal preferences. there is no specific way of loving/being loved, and every individual will naturally view love differently. when i think of true love, i envision pushing limits and choosing your partner every single day, despite how attractive another is or how great they are in bed.
