Dating Advice | **Setting Up Your Dating Profile Guide**
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🕑 Added 2021-05-16 19:39:04 +0000 UTC
Dating Advice | **Setting Up Your Dating Profile Guide**
What's up gentlemen. In this post, I am going to go over how to set up your profile.
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This has taken quite some time to put together, so, be so kind to tip if you find this helpful to reach the fundraising target. Further more it will be a working document where I will add to it when I something comes up.
There will be different parts but please follow along. This will only be in english as well.
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Before we start please be aware that I pay for tinder's highest service to get more matches and also have premium service with Hinge and Bumble. You should too because it is going to work in your favor and allows you to send messages to girls directly without matching (Tinder only). THIS is huge because with the right openers, not matching doesn't even matter. I know, pretty cool. Pay to play is annoying but it leads to more matches, more conversations and more sex. 😈
Part 1: Setting your intention with your profile
On dating apps like tinder, it's important that you think of your intention of your profile. But, what does this mean? It means that you need to play the numbers game here. We're looking to fuck not marry someone here, so, you must come in heavy and let it be known what you're about. Women find it a turn off when you try to hide what you are instead of simply being out there about it in an INDIRECT way. There are a couple ways to set this intention to fuck which leads to more matches and thus a greater opportunity to get laid.
-Have shirtless pictures doing something like a sport (1 or 2 is good)
Just this alone will set you apart if you are in good shape but balance it out with a dressed up looking photo too. This will "set your intention" that you are here to fuck. Which leads me to my next point.
**Part 2: How to choose photos**
When choosing photos for your dating profile I want you to remember three things. 1. Picture quality, 2. Looking good in your photos 3. Natural photos
I list these three things because you want to make your first impression a good one. Now, let's break it down. You must have a great quality photo. Nothing that is grainy or pixelated will cut it. This will leave an impression in the girl's mind you are a slob and do not care about details and gives off a negative image about who you may be as a person and we do not want that. The second thing that you must pay attention to is how you look in your photos. What comes into this component of the photos you select is your personal style and hygiene. Are you well dressed in your photo? Is your hair done? Are you showing your white teeth? These things, as superficial as they may seem, matter and score you more points. For the men that have a great muscular body, simply showing yourself doing an activity with your shirt off attracts the girl who is looking to get laid on these apps. And the last one ties into the second; is your photo f0rced or natural? Try your best to get a natural photo because not doing so may lead the woman to believe you are a people pleaser and you try to f0rce things, which, again is something we do not want.
Bonus: Dog pictures will increase your matches by 40%. Even if its not your dog. Just pull a picture from the internet and make up a story.
**Part 3: How to craft a killer bio.**
Making your bio on dating apps is a mix between creativity and seriousness. Girls want to see both sides of you because they are already picturing themselves with you if they are swiping right. So, we use this to our advantage. I will share examples.
Ex1: "I got a B+ in human sexuality in college, so let's just say I know my way around a *checks poorly scribbled notes - cliboris"
Ex2: "You've got male. Pun intended. Not afraid of strings attached. Hit me up. Let's have a drink or five. About me: I'm a surgical PCU nurse and my family and friends are very important to me."
Ex:3: "You can't choose your father, but you can pick your daddy - devil emoji"
In the first it aims to be mildly sexual and funny. It conveys you are funny most of the time. The second shows you have a balanced personality. and the third is telling the girls you are funny but are giving her some naughty ideas.
Bonus: My own tinder bio (and why i say what I say) - 6'1" (185cm/1.85) From U.S. Grew up around Korean culture. Founder and Entrepreneur. Frequent Flyer. Semi unprofessional diver. Let's go on an adventure?
It should be obvious but heights is important to girls. So I make sure to put this first as it works in my favor. I also put what culture I grew up around since it attracts more Korean girls to me since they feel like they are understood from another perspective. I have a couple things about me in a serious and non serious tone and thats it. It's short simple and to the point.
**Part 4: Openers that work**
Example:
You look like the perfect mix of cute and trouble :)
[follow up] Am I going to be a bad influence on you then 😏
small rapport break - say whatever
[next follow up] Cool :) So what are you looking for on here, NAME
(This lets you know what the situation is and sets expectations aka hook up)
[follow up] glad we're on the same page, although my idea of a fun date is splitting a bottle of wine, Netflix, and cuddles
(You can make this up - doesn't have to be this idea)
[follow up] Great we should get together sometime soon
Shoot me you number for wine arrangement purposes ;)
**Part 5: Closing / What if she doesn't respond**
So what if she does not respond after texting? This is common for hotter girls so we have to play to their devices they use. They want to act as if what they did was not rude by leaving you hanging but we must be cool and chill whenever this happens. The best way to pick back up a conversation? Send a picture of your dog (or pretend dog) and say DOG name is very displeased / looking for you. You'll see the magic that happens with instant responses back and moving things forward again.
**Final Thoughts: Self Improvement**
1. Physical Attraction (Becoming more attractive to women)
-Build Muscle
-Grow facial hair
-Wear clothes that fit you well
2. Conversation Skills
-speak slowly and be insightful
-tease lightly yet praise her in conversations
-bring small sexual innuendoes to the mix
3. New Hobbies
-Make your profile and life more interesting by doing things you enjoy (makes for great conversation)
-Pick up new hobbies that challenge you
-Remember you are the prize not here and this is reflected in how busy you are.
